A family type of living, or lifestyle

The children are sheltered in several house-homes in the Foundation, forming family groups of 8-10 children of different ages and sexes, looked after and cared for by "social parents" who in turn live with the children 24 hours a day, in order to be for them that father and mother that they never had.
Instead of the traditional collective bedrooms and immense dining halls, we opted for the house-home system, where the child feels comfortable due to the family atmosphere that prevails in this type of set up.

The children' and adolescents' calm and harmonious growth become possible above all thanks to the deep "family" experience that works miracles restoring dignity and happiness to children that have been wounded because of their families abandoning them and due to their social exclusion. The crucial point here is to create the right atmosphere, a "family" one, the most appropriate and effective and also being the most "original": God's plan from the beginning of time.

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More importantly, grow as a person
In this way we believe we can get these boys and girls to mature to the point of enabling them, in the adult phase of their lives, a real, durable and solid insertion in society. In fact, the youths that have acquired a solid psycho-affective structure have got on great in life. It is illusion to imagine that we can help them simply by getting them a job... it would be like intending to build a house and soon worrying about a beautiful roof... maybe because it would be more time consuming and energy sapping to begin from the very foundations! Many minors, starting to work without receiving the necessary formation so as to grow as integrated persons, easily get discouraged when faced with difficulties and failures... and they return again to the streets, to drugs and delinquency. But by this stage as they already have completed 18 years of age, they are not satisfied any more with a life of begging, but they buy a weapon and, if they are not killed, they end up in prison!
Learning how to share
Embittered by this tragic destiny for many boys and street girls in Salvador, in 1988, after a year of contacts with the sad streets reality and reformatories, we began this experience accepting the challenge of offering them not only crumbs or palliatives, but our very house, our company, our time and our life, our faith and our affection, repeating what our own parents did for us when we were children and adolescents.
Yes, by not getting to the root of the problem, more serious problems arise and are created: insisting on using outdated educational methods and superficial service programs, never getting to the real root of the problem, future generations will be shocked to see fragmented people weighted down by revolt, violent attitudes, pain and death.
Personal care and attention in small groups
The problem of the marginalized youth needs to be faced, even in an investment attitude that prevents greater evils. The common temptation is to want to eliminate as fast as possible, anything that is seen to be a problem for society. Therefore the "number of those who are helped' is considered much more important than the "quality of the service": we are more concerned about showing the public immediate results, rather than working in order to form fully integrated and healthy adolescents, the adults of tomorrow. We preferred to take care of a small number of boys and girls at a time, it's much better than to pile them up in the same place taking care of them in any way, that is, without guaranteeing them personalized care and attention. Each child is an individual: his/her past, his/her time and his/her rhythm need to be respected. "Only if we take good care of the sprouts of today, will we collect much fruit tomorrow" (Milton Nascimento).
Therapeutic and professionalization Formative attitudes
In the workshops of the Foundation there are several types of manual activities organized in order to allow the boys and girls to be in small groups, subdivided according to age, preference and the aptitude of each one: embroidery, sewing, cookery, carpentry, painting, locksmith, construction, prefabricated cement products, gardening and the rearing of animals. For more specialized courses, the boys and girls attend SENAI and the EOS - "Escola Oficina Salvador", the last stage on the road to his/her reintegration back into society.
 
 

All the boys and girls frequent local schools. The day is made up of moments of leisure, grinds, manual cultural and artistic activities, and a lot of sport. There are formation encounters, moments of religious reflection and individual conversations with the adults.

Education at the service and gratuity
In various institutions here in Salvador there exists an educational system which we don't agree with, the children are paid for their participation in different activities (even for frequenting classes or watering plants...) In fact, if he/she were on the streets, thanks to alms giving and other initiatives he/she would earn more money, so it's not just to occupy their precious time in non-lucrative activities (cultural, artistic, therapeutic, and so on). It's claimed that remuneration stimulates and motivates them to be more serious and also that it's a way of keeping them in the entity.

The issue of methodology is not so relevant then, we ask the question, to see if payment is the deciding factor in all of this:

Paying the student for his/her services or for frequenting activities isn't a real invitation to participate, it's buying his presence in benefit of the project or institution. It wouldn't be possible organize so many activities without having people to frequent them, more importantly a loyal and faithful clientel is necessary. This is the way that infinite lists of names are filled so as to receive funds and guarantee a high number of jobs and high salaries.

To take advantage of the weak side of the child (because a child will do anything for money!) is manipulation, is a type of abuse, it's exercising one's power over him/her taking advantage of his/her immaturity, ingenuity, keeping him/her submissive, and very often, in the same or even worse situation that he/she found himself/herself in the streets. Perhaps the child will use the money to buy drugs.

Any non-profitable organization working to help children and adolescents cannot lower itself to the level of an employment agency or industry, reserving first place to the problem of self-maintenance or the professionalization of the youth, which should be the last stage of a journey that should include a broader horizon: an integral formation of people taking off from their foundations. A lot of these children have to learn too early in life a profession and start working to survive, with the excuse that they have to be re- immersed into society, too early in life very often abandoned and lost in life. In order `to invite them` to leave it's necessary pay cheap lodgings or the use of a little shack. It's the "second abandonment" this not family but the institution. For some this is the final blow... From this point onwards we should not be surprised what direction their lives should take or if it ended up in tragedy.
Different from the majority of children of this age group, a lot of the institutionalizes don't have the right to live their infancy and a normal adolescence having friends, a hobby, playing sports and so on.

Money cannot be seen as the primary factor, or at least, it's not the starting point from where one begins to educate a child and show the real meaning of life. Everybody knows that giving money to a child, he/she doesn't need to be educated for this, even the drug pushers know this. The educator is the one that awakens in the child the conviction that, other than his/her more immediate necessities, there are others, the fundamental ones, which have to be taken more seriously in order to guarantee a stable life.

We cannot start from the principle that a child doesn't understand certain things and that it would be a waste of time to try and explain to him the reasons why that it's worth to take seriously the importance a good education in life. A proposal is worthwhile if it's transparent and flawless, and touches the child's heart to the point that he/she discovers that this is a greater good or benefit than the financial one. In any other fashion it's simply a financial offer thinking of financial benefits or camouflaged philanthropic manipulation, much worse that explicit exploitation.

In order to guarantee the child na integrated and harmonious upbringing it`s necessary to begin a journey where he/she begins to understand how to learn, share life with others, respecting each one's journey and time of maturity. But it`s necessary renounce the hen today so as tomorrow one can eat the eggs in the days that lay ahead. Some understand this and take it on board! For this very reason the life that we propose is one of service, generosity, gratitude and the sharing of needs, sufferings and happiness. We want to offer a possibility of an adolescence lived in an affectionate manner, respecting oneself and others in the hope for a brighter future. A daily cohabitation with them is our pedagogy.

It's sad to see how the children assimilate the opportunist mentality, consumerist behavior, taking advantage of others not just those marginalized in the streets of our cities but those unfortunately in institutions, that don't offer them an alternative liberating education. Among the children frequenting these institutions it`s very difficult to find one who critically evaluates things or has a critical outlook on life, or even worried about his/her very future in life. These children are exclusively worried about how to get their hands on money, earn money, as if everything in life depended on this.

Na example of this educational model can be seen from an incident at our from gate last month when a group of adolescents from the end of the city: "Sir, how much do you pay a child here?" Surely, all of them returned to where they had come from not thinking of the solitary money that we offered them.

 
 "I don't have neither gold nor silver,

but what I have I give to you:

in Jesus`s name, get up, come and learn.!"
 
 
Our daily routine
Very early • Some of the older ones leave for work or work experience.
5:30







• Wake up
• Some adolescents clean out the stables or feed the animals.
• But, in the houses, personal hygiene, breakfast, cleaning the bedrooms, bathrooms and patio.
7:00 • Breakfast (some leave for school).
8:00









• After kitchen chores group activities begin (study, work, etc.).
• But in each house, accompanied from a distance by the social parents, they begin to plepare dinner and set the tables.
• There is always a social mother that has to accompany one of the children to the doctor or psychologist, or attend some course or meeting.
12:00 • Dinner (some leave for school).
13:00





• While some clean up the kitchen, others begin their school activities, therapeutic etc.
• Formation and information meetings for conscientization purposes.
16:30


• Sporting activities, afterwards, all take showers and some prepare supper.
18:00 • Supper (some go to evening classes).
19:30



• Having organized the kitchens, each one can watch TV or play around the house or outside.
21:00


• Go to sleep. The older ones can remain watching TV, awaiting the others return from night classes.
In the weekends we wake up later and playmore time. Some go out, and sometimes we go, all together, by bus, to the beach.