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The children are sheltered in several house-homes in the Foundation, forming family groups of 8-10 children of different ages and sexes, looked after and cared for by "social parents" who in turn live with the children 24 hours a day, in order to be for them that father and mother that they never had. Instead of the traditional collective bedrooms and immense dining halls, we opted for the house-home system, where the child feels comfortable due to the family atmosphere that prevails in this type of set up. The children' and adolescents' calm and harmonious growth become possible above all thanks to the deep "family" experience that works miracles restoring dignity and happiness to children that have been wounded because of their families abandoning them and due to their social exclusion. The crucial point here is to create the right atmosphere, a "family" one, the most appropriate and effective and also being the most "original": God's plan from the beginning of time. . |
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importantly, grow as a person
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In
this way we believe we can get these boys and girls to mature to the point
of enabling them, in the adult phase of their lives, a real, durable and
solid insertion in society. In fact, the youths that have acquired a solid
psycho-affective structure have got on great in life. It is illusion to
imagine that we can help them simply by getting them a job... it would
be like intending to build a house and soon worrying about a beautiful
roof... maybe because it would be more time consuming and energy sapping
to begin from the very foundations! Many minors, starting to work without
receiving the necessary formation so as to grow as integrated persons,
easily get discouraged when faced with difficulties and failures... and
they return again to the streets, to drugs and delinquency. But by this
stage as they already have completed 18 years of age, they are not satisfied
any more with a life of begging, but they buy a weapon and, if they are
not killed, they end up in prison!
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Embittered
by this tragic destiny for many boys and street girls in Salvador, in
1988, after a year of contacts with the sad streets reality and reformatories,
we began this experience accepting the challenge of offering them not
only crumbs or palliatives, but our very house, our company, our time
and our life, our faith and our affection, repeating what our own parents
did for us when we were children and adolescents.
Yes, by not getting to the root of the problem, more serious problems arise and are created: insisting on using outdated educational methods and superficial service programs, never getting to the real root of the problem, future generations will be shocked to see fragmented people weighted down by revolt, violent attitudes, pain and death. |
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The
problem of the marginalized youth needs to be faced, even in an investment
attitude that prevents greater evils. The common temptation is to want
to eliminate as fast as possible, anything that is seen to be a problem
for society. Therefore the "number of those who are helped' is considered
much more important than the "quality of the service": we are
more concerned about showing the public immediate results, rather than
working in order to form fully integrated and healthy adolescents, the
adults of tomorrow. We preferred to take care of a small number of boys
and girls at a time, it's much better than to pile them up in the same
place taking care of them in any way, that is, without guaranteeing them
personalized care and attention. Each child is an individual: his/her
past, his/her time and his/her rhythm need to be respected. "Only
if we take good care of the sprouts of today, will we collect much fruit
tomorrow" (Milton Nascimento).
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In
the workshops of the Foundation there are several types of manual activities
organized in order to allow the boys and girls to be in small groups,
subdivided according to age, preference and the aptitude of each one:
embroidery, sewing, cookery, carpentry, painting, locksmith, construction,
prefabricated cement products, gardening and the rearing of animals. For
more specialized courses, the boys and girls attend SENAI and the EOS
- "Escola Oficina Salvador", the last stage on the road to his/her
reintegration back into society.
All the boys and girls frequent local schools. The day is made up of moments of leisure, grinds, manual cultural and artistic activities, and a lot of sport. There are formation encounters, moments of religious reflection and individual conversations with the adults. |
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